The Gyalwang Karmapa’s
teachings on Nagarjuna’s Letter to a friend
December
22,
2009, Tergar Monastery, report by Jo Gibson, Michele Martin, photos taken by
Karma Lekcho, Karma Norbu
Day Three: AM
report by Jo Gibson
The following
summary of the morning’s teachings is based on Ringu Trulku
Rinpoche’s translation from Tibetan into English.


The Gyalwang Karmapa began by saying that this
the third day of the teachings would also be the final session.
Consequently it would not be possible to give a detailed commentary
on the whole text so he preferred to at least give the reading
transmission of it, occasionally commenting, in order that both he
and the audience would have a sense of completion.
The next three stanzas, 17, 18, and 19, contain
instructions to abandon lowly actions of body, speech and mind.
Stanza 17
Understand your thoughts to be like figures
drawn
On water, sandy soil, or carved in stone.
Of these, for tainted thoughts the first’s the
best,
While when you long for Dharma, it’s the last.
This verse is concerned with abandoning negative
thoughts. The simile compares a drawing on water which is
immediately erased, with a drawing on earth which remains for a
short while, and a carving on rock which can last for centuries. His
Holiness explained that, especially when we first begin to practice,
we experience many afflictions in our minds. Thus, we should train
our minds so that these afflictions become like words on water.
When, on the other hand, we train in positive qualities such as
loving kindness and compassion and so forth, the results should be
like rock carvings, at best, or, at least, as if drawn on the
earth.

Stanza 18
Three kinds of speech are used by humankind,
And these the Victor variously described:
Like honey, sweet; like flowers, true; like
filth,
Improper speech—the last of these eschew.
This verse describes three different types of
speech – helpful and beneficial which is sweet like honey;
truthful and beautiful like a flower; the last is wrong speech,
unclean like dirt, and refers to such things as lies and divisive
speech, which should be avoided.

Stanza 19
Some there are who go from light to light,
And some whose end from dark is darkness
still,
While some from light to dark, or dark to
light
End up, thus four, of these be as the first.
Verse 19 explains why we should stop non-virtuous
actions and train in positive qualities. Our ultimate aim is
enlightenment, but in cyclic existence negative emotions influence
our actions, and our actions harm others. If we turn away from
these non-virtuous actions and work on positive deeds instead, our
lives now will become happier and there will our rebirths will also
be more fortunate. Gyalwang Karmapa quoted from Shantideva’s
The Way of the Bodhisattva “If you ride the horse of
bodhichitta you will go from one happy place to another. So how
could a bodhisattva ever be lazy?” Of the four possible
directions we can take in samsara, he advised, we should aim to go
from light to light, to turn ‘good’ into ‘better’.

His Holiness then read verses 20 to 29, pausing
to comment on verse 29.
Stanza 29
You who know the world, take gain and loss,
Of bliss and pain, or kind words and abuse,
Of praise and blame—these eight mundane
concerns—
Make them the same and don’t disturb your
mind.
This verse refers to the eight worldly concerns
and the problems that can arise if we depend too much on external
conditions for our happiness and well-being. This leads to an
imbalance in our lives and our mental states become like waves on
the ocean. For instance, some people when praised become overjoyed,
but then when they are criticised they become sad and depressed.
Consequently they have no stability. If, instead, we can be content
with whatever conditions we face, we will always be happy. His
Holiness warned that Dharma practitioners should not pay too much
attention to what people are saying about their practice. He advised
that if we can maintain internal stability and equanimity,
irrespective of what is happening externally, life becomes
trouble-free. As practitioners we should understand and accept the
nature of samsara. The definition given of samsara is ‘not
everything goes well’, so why should we be surprised when things go
wrong? If you put your hand in hot water you will be scalded. You
shouldn’t be shocked by this – it’s how things are. If you take a
bath in icy water, you aren’t surprised that it’s freezing cold!
Our view of samsara should be similar – we should be expecting
problems and not be thrown off balance by them.
Gyalwang Karmapa went on to suggest ways in
which it was possible to maintain mental equipoise in daily life.
The Abhidharma lists five ever-present mental factors, one of which
is samadhi- a one-pointed factor of stability. Speaking from
his own experience he said how sometimes he was so busy that when he
reviewed the day at night, he failed to recall anything useful that
he had done and felt that the day had lacked purpose and that this
precious human life was being wasted. His Holiness then moved on
to consider what it really means to waste time. The essential
thing, he advised, was to maintain a stable awareness in whatever we
are doing, and if we can do this we will never be wasting time.
There was no point fretting over time spent brushing our teeth,
sitting in a traffic jam, or standing in a check-out queue. These
were merely external conditions. We always have a choice, whatever
we are doing; we can always make use of our minds. Some people
misguidedly believe that their happiness and well-being depend on
external conditions such as acquiring a new car, but, a careful
examination will show that happiness depends on internal not
external factors. If we understand this, whatever is happening
around us, we can work on our minds and use that time in a positive
and meaningful way. It is fundamentally important to understand that
happiness comes from within.

Gyalwang Karmapa then gave the reading
transmission of verses 30 – 57. He paused again at verse 58, to
discuss the correct understanding of impermanence.
Stanza 58
It’s all impermanent, devoid of self,
So if you’re not to stay there refugeless
And helpless, drag your mind away, O King,
From plaintainlike samsara, which has no core.
Observing that some people became fearful when
they meditate on impermanence, he commented that this was not the
point; it is not intended to bring fear. As Buddhists we believe
that this birth is but one of a succession, a cycle of birth and
death. However, people often mistakenly think in terms only of this
life—one birth, one life, one death. As a consequence, death becomes
uncertain and frightening. The correct way to look at impermanence,
however, is as a sequence of births and deaths which we can see
operating at all levels of our everyday lives. Moment by moment,
new things come into being, that is birth, and other things come to
an end, that is death. Understanding impermanence in this way
should have two positive effects: firstly, it should reduce our fear
of death itself, and secondly it should heighten our appreciation of
our moment-to-moment existence leading us to value and focus on each
moment. If we fail to do the latter, we may waste our lives. If we
take each moment as a drop, we can make our lives an ocean of
happiness.
Gyalwang Karmapa resumed his reading of the text
and completed the reading transmission.
Question and answer session
Q. Should not some Rinpoches have the
aspiration to take rebirth as females, as Tara did, in order to show
that women are capable of enlightenment?
Having suggested that this was worth praying for,
His Holiness commented that In Tantra it is clear that one can
attain Buddhahood in the body of a woman. A Buddha can emanate in
any form – male or female—hence Tara, but it would be wrong to
think in terms of a competition between men and women. There needs
to be a reason such as compassionate action for the benefit of women
requiring birth as a woman. It doesn’t have to be a Rinpoche, His
Holiness observed, some of the audience could do it too.
Q.There are so many bhikkshunis here –
but none from the Tibetan tradition. When will Your Holiness start
gelongma ordination? If Your Holiness does not start the tradition,
who will?
Gyalwang Karmapa explained that during the recent
Vinaya Conference, there had been a great deal of discussion on the
issue of gelongma (Skt. Bhikkshuni) ordination and
how it could be introduced into the Tibetan tradition. There were
several difficulties which needed to be thoroughly discussed, as it
would be wrong to act hastily. One difficulty was that there were
no gelongma in the Mulasarvastivadin tradition, which
Tibetan Buddhism follows, although it seems that some Tibetan
masters in the past may have ordained nuns. A second was finding a
method by which the gelongma ordination could be introduced
so that its future was stable. Possible solutions discussed at the
conference included carrying out gelongma ordination by a
sangha of monks only, or by a combined sangha of monks from the Mulasarvastivadin
tradition and nuns from the Chinese Dharmagupta tradition. It was
difficult to know at what point gelongma ordination would become
possible but His Holiness promised that he was working hard on the
issue, with pure motivation. It could not be done hastily. It had to
be done properly in order to secure the future of the gelongma.
“Don’t worry. I will do it,” he said in English.
“Be patient.”
Q. What is the right way of life for a
nun who is working in a hospital far from other sangha members?
For a getsulma (novice nun), His Holiness
advised, the most important thing from the Vinaya point of view, is
keeping the four root vows, and not doing something which lay
people would take offense at in terms of making them lose their
respect for or faith in the sangha.
Q. How should we meditate on
selflessness? And how does this relate to helping sentient beings?
His Holiness commented that although we often
think of ourselves as separate and independent , a closer
examination of our situation proves that we are not. From the very
air we breathe which sustains our life, to the food we eat and the
books we read, we are dependent on others. We are a part of
everything around us, and compassionate action is a product of a
thorough understanding of this interdependence. From his own
experience, he observed, the more he understood interdependence
the more he understood how important others were, and the importance
of working for their benefit. Usually we think I exist, so others
exist, he said. We need to understand that I exist because others
exist. If others didn’t exist, I wouldn’t exist.
Understanding selflessness and emptiness is basic
to understanding compassion too, he said. Sometimes when meditating
on selflessness it seems as if all becomes nothing, but when one
really understands selflessness, compassion also arises.
This concluded the teaching. Gyalwang Karmapa thanked everybody for
coming . Hundreds of years ago the friendship between Nagarjuna and
King Surabhibhadra had produced this text, and now, because of the
text, everyone at the teaching had formed a karmic connection,
and he would pray to ensure that this connection would be renewed
in future. He hoped that everyone would carry the experience of
friendship, love and harmony they had shared back to their own
countries, East and West.
Day Three: PM
report by
Michele Martin
The Closing Ceremony
After three days of inspiring teaching, His Holiness
brought to a close his discussion of Nagarjuna’s Letter to a
Friend with thanks to the students who had gathered for so far
away.
He said, “I am happy to have been able to give
teachings on this text and thank you for giving me this opportunity.
Letter to a Friend was composed over a thousand years ago
when the great scholar Nagaruna sent a letter to his dear friend,
King Decho Zangpo. I am very happy to have been able to speak about
this text to faithful students from the East and West. The fact that
we could all meet here is due to our gathering considerable merit in
the past. I sincerely hope that in the future we will be able to
meet again and again. I am continually doing as much as I can to
make this possible.”


As thanks to His Holiness for these special teachings
and with prayers for his very long life, leaders from Dharma centers
and the organizers offered him the supports of body, speech, mind,
qualities and, activities. Then Lama Chokyi from France spoke for
everyone when he compared His Holiness to a skilled gardener. In
the beginning, the seeds are rather colorless and not very
attractive, but the gardener knows that with care they will grow
into beautiful flowers, so he nurtures them as they grow to
maturity. Likewise, in the beginning, we students are rather
undeveloped, but with His Holiness’s compassion and teachings, we
hope to blossom into true flowers of the Dharma.

Afterward, Michele Martin with Pi Chun Chen translating
into Chinese offered thanks to all the many volunteers who made this
event possible. She said, “We have often heard that everything
arises through dependent origination. And these teachings are no
exception. They are due to the auspicious gathering of a whole
range of causes and conditions. We would now like to thank and
offer our gratitude to some of the main and obvious ones.” Beginning
with His Holiness’ General Secretary, Drupon Rinpoche, and
continuing through the people on security, Tergar Monastery, the
Kagyu Monlam Administration, Jeff Chen for the website and
registration along with a group of 60 Taiwanese; Karma Yeshe for all
aspects of electronics; Norbu, Mr. Shi, Jack Rosa and Chopin for the
website and sound; the translators into nine languages, and Ngodup
Tsering; Ani Renzhan, Ani Renju and the reporters for registration
and website; the chant masters Khenpo Sherap and Karma Choephel;
Khenpo Tengye and the Hua Yen Foundation for the book of Letter
to a Friend in 8 languages; those working in registration;
Drolma for keeping our environment clean and pleasant, and John
Barhnill for medical services.

Finally, thanks were extended to all who came, more
than 1,500, from 52 different countries. Michele continued: “We have
done our best to make this a special experience for you and ask for
forgiveness for anything that was inadequate or a problem. You have
been a wonderful audience and we hope that you will take home fine
memories of you time here and a deepening connection with the
Dharma. And we hope that you will share the teachings with others
when you return home. The practice and spreading of the genuine
Dharma is the best offering we can make to His Holiness. We all make
the aspiration that we will meet again and have the precious
opportunity to hear His Holiness teach for immeasurable numbers of
years. Thank you all.”
Afterward, everyone had the opportunity to offer their auspicious
scarves and personal thanks to His Holiness and receive his
blessing. Many stayed behind in the surrounding gardens of Tergar
Monastery to enjoy the sunny, warm weather, to circumambulate the
shrine building where His Holiness stays, remaining a little longer
in his presence.
